If your partner is still bringin up old shit, maybe it’s time to sit down & talk to them about it. cause that clearly means its stuck in their head, and its been weighing heavy on their heart. Just as bad as you want them to forget, they want to forget it 10x more
“you’ve changed.” yes‚ i did. i stopped giving people too much love, kindness, attention, and forgiveness. i reciprocate the energy they deserve. my priority is me. :)
People arent “lazy.” Some arent motivated because of being in survival mode for so long. Some experience depression that depletes their energy even if they in bed all day. Some are battling internal struggles that take alot to overcome even if it looks like they’re doing nothing.
full offence to my cis friends but if I have to go to your baby showers, engagement parties, gender reveals, christenings and weddings and buy you gifts, you can buy me a flowers and gifts for important milestones in my transition. I celebrate you and your milestones jus sayin
Call me old-fashioned, but I believe some intimate things should be reserved for marriage. A man should wait until his wedding night to untie the green ribbon around his wife’s neck and let her head tumble to the ground.
Healthy relationships & healthy marriages are for mature people only! They're for people who are willing to abandon their individual wants/needs for what's best for the union long term. Most people refuse to think beyond themselves—making healthy relationships/marriages uncommon.
I never want to be in a relationship with someone that just tolerates me.. You need to be obsessed w/me in the most healthiest way to the point you can't even imagine a life without me
Men have been abandoning their wives and children for eons without little clapback from people at large, but the moment a woman says she doesn’t want to even initiate the process of getting married and having kids and suddenly she’s bringing down the whole of society.