bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something
girls will survive abuse, heartbreak, grief, and unspeakable tragedies and still move through the world with kindness and compassion, but one minor inconvenience in a man’s childhood and he spends the rest of his life terrorizing and poisoning everyone around him
sometimes even an apology can’t fix what happened because the real issue is not the mistake, it’s the part of your character that allowed you to do it in the first place. and you can’t apologize for character.
I don't like people who can't put their pride aside, apologize, say they messed up, they miss you or wanna be in your life again. Life is too short, grow up.
imagine telling all your trauma to someone you’re dating & they turn around and traumatize you the same way because they knew your weakness. this sounds like a nightmare