Approach every relationship genuinely. Noma bengadlala ngawe, leave, heal and try again. Ungaphenduki islwane ngenxa yomuntu who can’t appreciate uthando. That’s not your fault or burden to bare. Ave kumnandi ukuhlukana nomuntu knowing that you did right by them, bazonela.
Mind you, no one tells them to go stand in the sun with no sunscreen in 40° weather.
No one loves extreme weather, we just prefer to have to layer up over being sticky and sweaty
Surrender to the collapse and break all the way through. There’s so much grace and freedom when you stop trying to control everything around you and start looking inwards. Not everything you let go of has to have claw marks in it.
Sometimes in between life and adulting, you experience a burst of gratitude. Grateful for where you are, grateful for the things you’ve overcome, grateful for the hope of a better tomorrow. God handpicks the details of our lives because what a life man.