I genuinely believe avoidants show up in your life to help you break free from anxious attachment. They force you to get grounded in who you are and grow into someone unshakeable.
Stop dealing with people who have nobody in their life holding them accountable. Those type of people will do you wrong, justify it, and then gather a bunch of other unaccountable mfs to back them up. Next thing you know, you getting gaslit for reacting to THEIR behavior.
I’m very adamant about not having people around who repeatedly disrupt my nervous system through their lack of care, empathy, and consideration. Get away from me.
I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!