it’s about time every fandom calls out ppl who have unhealthy parasocial relationships with idols and constantly disrespect/cross boundaries with them. stalking, harassment, even as far as ass@ult. sasaengs have gotten so out of hand to the point idols are not safe at all.
so bumping into matthew and having him video call with your friends in his !!free time!! while he’s out with his friend is actually very weird by the way! to the person that was bugging him on the street and the *fan* on the phone, please learn boundaries
i know everyone loves to joke about how matthew is oomf (i do it sometimes too) but i feel like it goes too far sometimes to the point where ppl think he's their friend just bc he's nice to yall and knows a few internet references 😅 but do remember that he's an idol and his own person, not an extension of us especially when he's not on the job, he is a kind person regardless but we still shouldn't assume we have the right to treat him however we like just bc he's "oomf" and "nice"
It’s so hard starting a new account.
Thank you to everyone who has followed me.
Still trying to find everyone though. And there’s a verified account that I have put in a request…particularly @ahnwana who I rely on for ZB1 updates.
If you see this…please accept my request 🙏🏻
if you meet an idol on their free time and it’s not a public event…you don’t need to use your phone i promise the clout is not worth the cost of their privacy