Don’t downplay how difficult it is to wake up. Being honest, making intentional choices, acting on your values, and refusing to take part in dysfunctional will involve societal rejection. It requires thick skin. Stay strong.
Yes, healing is hard.
Becoming the best version of yourself isn’t meant to be easy.
Not healing is also hard. Re-living generational trauma cycles is hard. Being stuck is hard.
We get to choose our version of hard.
Cutting someone out of your life and choosing yourself and your sanity is one of the most difficult experiences a person can go through in life. You're never the same after because you know how different life is when you protect your peace.