MAJOR lessons I’m learning...
- you can’t please everyone
- you shouldn’t apologize for how you’re feeling
- it’s okay to say no
- it’s okay to step away from people who aren’t feeding your spirit
- you’re not meant to be everyone’s savior but point them to the One who IS.
these are the same folks who argue just to hear themselves talk. they won’t hear anything that you say because they’re simply waiting for you to shut up so they can respond again.
also - just because someone eventually stops replying back to you during an argument does not mean that you have “won” at all.
it’s called maturity. i have other things to be doing besides arguing back & forth with someone who isn’t listening anyways.