Believe me: Life gets a lot better when you stop treating every inconvenience like it's the end of the world. Flat tire. Delayed flight. Someone cancels on you. Most things aren't ruining your day unless you decide they are.
People are yelling at this guy but this is a real phenomenon, especially in people with stressful work lives
You DO need to make sure that your partner isn’t bearing the brunt of your bad moods when you’re done putting on the act for the outside world
when i'm mad from my perspective but i can also see their perspective so now i’m carrying double the emotional weight and being eaten away by my anger and empathy
"Meninas amadurecem mais rápido."
NÃO. Meninas são punidas mais cedo, culpadas mais cedo, assumem responsabilidades que não são delas mais cedo, são sexualizadas mais cedo e esperam que elas lidem com tudo isso mais cedo.
The idea that "30 days builds a habit" is a joke to an ADHD brain. I can do something flawlessly every day for 3 weeks, miss exactly one day, and my brain will permanently delete the entire routine
This is not heartwarming. This is not mercy. This is evil. Separating families is evil. He should have been in the loving embrace of his family all along. They should have been able to put their full energy into making their son comfortable.
We’ve lost the art of just being like “hey man that was kinda uncool.” Everything has to be the biggest deal ever and people have to be groveling begging for forgiveness and apologizing profusely for every little thing. Sometimes a “yeah that was uncool my fault guys” is enough