demoro muito para me desconectar de alguém. demoro muito para desistir e me desvincular. insisto muito, tento demais. mas, o bom de ser uma pessoa insistente é que não há nada que eu não tenha tentado, por isso, quando vou embora, sei exatamente por que não voltar.
sem querer me expor no twitter mas é foda quando vc era uma pessoa normal aí um belo dia alguém resolve fuder com sua vida e vc nunca mais volta ao normal desde então
si sacas a una persona de sus casillas hasta el punto de provocarle casi un ataque de ansiedad y luego le dices que tiene que aprender a gestionar sus emociones para mí eres un puto psicópata lo siento
Gaslighting works like this. They do something cruel. Your nervous system reacts. They blame you for reacting. And when you try to address what they actually did, suddenly that conversation is never available.
Disappearing on your partner after a conflict, especially when they need clarity or reassurance, isn’t simply “giving yourself space.” When you repeatedly shut them out instead of communicating, it can create anxiety and feelings of abandonment. Those wounds are real, and they can deeply affect the relationship.
Lack of consideration will make me detach faster than an argument ever could. I’m not reminding you to act like I matter to you. If I have to keep asking, what exactly are we holding onto?
Lol youd think after countless pleads to fucking not make me feel like this someone wouldnt but its just a continuous ass routine that ive allowed over and over again
It hurts to be made out to be a bad person when you know how many times you stopped thinking about yourself to prioritize the well,being of others. It's true that many people only see what you didn't do, but they forget all the times you were there when no one else was.
You don't notice how emotionally drained you are until the smallest disappointment starts breaking you apart. It's never about the last thing; it's about everything before it.