Being a man is hard, but being a family man is even harder
You won't live that long, your body exhausted from all the risky jobs and long hours you did to feed your family
If you live long, you will be alone in your old age, abandoned by your children because you were never there, fending for them
You just can't win
Learn OR perish!!!
No matter how real, good or innocent you think she is
The real her is in that phone
Her phone is just like her heart
An ocean of deep secrets
Learn OR perish!!!
Signs that the woman you married settled for you. A majority of men are married to women who actually settled them for various reasons e.g age catching up with them, to escape societal shaming or for their money
1. Hyphenate her surname - your wife refusing to take your surname is the first sign she doesn't rate you. She thinks her father's name is more worthy than yours. If she sees you as a worthy man, she will want to be associated with your name
2. Refusal or delaying of kids - a woman who truly loves you will want to make babies for you. She will want the honor of carrying your genes inside her womb and nurturing those babies
3. Refusal or negotiating intimacy - if you find yourself having to constantly beg/negotiate for intimacy, she settled for you. If she places terms and conditions to her vag!na, she settled for you. In a healthy relationship, it's the wife who nags the husband for intimacy
4. Challenges your authority - if your woman constantly questions your decisions, she has no confidence in your leadership. If a woman rates you, she will even blindly follow your decisions, because you're her master, she's your student
5. Doesn't cook for you - as simple as it may sound, it's one of the clearest signs, she settled for you. If a woman truly rates you, she will not only cook for you, but she will want to and actually enjoy it. She wants you to judge and appreciate her cooking skills, because you're her king. Feeding you is a pleasure for her
Learn OR perish!!!
Men don't be shamed that viewing women as sexual objects is bad
Women view men as success objects and they feel no shame about it
Right now if you're to meet with a woman she's going to ask you:
โข what do you do
โข where do you live
โข what do you drive
In all this she's vetting your financial status. And the next thing, when she tells her useless friends she met a new guy. Guess the first thing they ask her. You guessed right - WHAT DOES HE DO? so they can vet his financial status
So why should you feel bad for viewing women as sexual objects. Yes, ask her if she's a virginity, her body count, tell her how fxckable she is, lust on her body etc
Sexualize her because she's also success-ualizing you too
Learn OR perish!!!
Ask yourself this:
If it was women's place to demand virginity from men do you think they would lower their standards, the way men are doing ?
Simce time immemorial, women have always demanded that a man should be able to PROVIDE & PROTECT no matter the circumstances
โข in ancient times despite men facing vicious animals with primitive tools they had to bring something home
โข in times of war they expect men to step up and risk their lives to defend them
โข in times of disasters they expect men to save them
This is how women have always been for thousands of years and will continue to do so, judging men by their ability to protect and provide
Now which is easier to keep your legs closed or to make money?
So why is it considered misogyny for a man to demand virginity but standards for a woman to demand financial stability?
You see how modern men are losers in today's relationships, they're still expected to hold their side of the bargain (provision & protection) for women with used up pxssies
Modern men keep lowering their standards whilst modern women keep raising theirs
Hoeflation is the best word to describe the madness
Learn OR perish!!!
Psalm 28:7: The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped: therefore my heart greatly rejoiceth; and with my song will I praise him.