@Alexgadgethub They are sex objects and they know it, that's why when things gets rough they resort to their only lifeline (Thier sexuality) to survive.
Even marriage is sex work = provision for hoeing for life.
Viewed logically, The Polygamist doesn't really have a villain. Jonasi wasn't a villain, he was indulgent. And the women weren't victims they were volunteers
Infact it shouldn't be called The Polygamist rather The Hypergamy. Because ask yourself this important question, if he was broke, would habe any of the women even be in his life? Of course not, there wouldn't even be a story
One man's lust aligned perfectly with multiple women's greed. His appetite for sex matched perfectly with their appetite for an easy life.
Let's just look at Joyce, she was asked for a divorce but denied him that. Why? Because her status of being married to a rich man mattered more than anything.
And then the rest of them, they actually knew he was a married man who slept around but they still came, because they wanted the lifestyle
If anything this show revealed more about female nature than exposing male nature. It just fits perfectly with what women say daily on social media e.g
"Better to cry in a Mercedes Benz than smile in a one room"
Lesson: Women's fear of poverty far outweighs their ability to leave rich cheating men
I’ll keep saying it, a lot of you need to decenter that Instagram lavish way of life, so you can start thinking like normal humans.
You are a Nigerian , living in Nigeria, no special
talent or skill , fuel is 1300+, rent is skyrocketing everywhere, minimum wage is less than 100k. Trust me you are closer to being homeless than driving that 2025 gle.
Nigerian women math 101:
"If I'm contributing my money, you will do both masculine and feminine chores".
But a man can be sole provider while still doing masculine chores and you do only the soft feminine ones.
Lesson for men : Do not negotiate with terrorists.
1. I was so drunk
2. I kissed him
It wouldn't be a woman if she did not blame her sexual harrasment of her uber driver on anything other than herself, and then blame her victim for 'kissing her back'
Now imagine a male rider 'being so drunk' and kissing his female driver...
I don’t know how we’re going to fix our cultural orientation around money o. Because right now if you told me someone sacrificed their entire family for “money ritual” I’ll believe you. There’s something horribly wrong with us collectively.
Since you joined this government, you have been signing MOUs and taking plenty of pictures that brings no value to the common man.
The cost of data keeps increasing, insecurity keeps getting worse, and I wonder what you have really achieved.
We are yet to see your comments or interventions regarding the children and teachers kidnapped recently.
You had a golden opportunity and messed it up.
Please shut up.
You don't bid for the World Cup if you plan to discriminate against attendees. FIFA usually reach an agreement with hosting countries to ensure visa issues and border issues for delegates don't arise.
Why is the USA not subject to that? Again, shut the fuck up.
You see, I am usually tough on men who choose the path of marrying single mothers and becoming the child's stepped-up father. But I read this and almost shed a tear for the man involved.
I want every man to read this.
You'll never be happy with a single mother if you marry one. The chances of disappointment, I believe, are far greater than the opposite, and for the following reasons.
Women have a poor memory of their privileges and a sharp memory of their sacrifices. That is to say, no matter what you do for a woman, she rarely holds your sacrifices in higher regard than her own, or than the sacrifices she once made for another man.
In the case of a single mother, your sacrifices will never fully displace the memories of what she gave in her previous relationship with the child's father. Consequently, you may never receive the degree of priority that you afford her.
Every deadbeat father, baby daddy was, at some point, a man she deeply loved. And women in love make sacrifices. So, sacrificing your way into her heart may earn you responsibility, but not necessarily devotion or appreciation. Her emotional history is already crowded with memories from the relationship that made her a single mother.
Your relationship will not stop her from f*cking her baby daddy if the opportunity presents itself.
You will play the role of the child's father and still never enjoy the benefits you imagined would accompany that role.
It is also worth stating that heavy lifting for a woman does not guarantee a degree of commitment proportionate to that effort. It guarantees nothing.
Part of the reason, is that women, throughout the vicissitudes of time, have remained the primary objects of men's benevolence. Every time a man went out of his way, it was often done to make a woman's life easier or more secure.
This singular habit, compounded over generations, has produced women who see men's chivalry, even in romance, less as an extraordinary gesture and more as something naturally expected. A prerogative.
You are not the first man to do it, nor will you be the last. Consequently, your sacrifices may not register in the female psyche as grand acts demanding equal commitment or devotion in return.
Another reason why heavy lifting your way into a woman's life may fail to produce the outcome you desire is that appreciation requires perspective.
Women do not make man-level kind of sacrificing. Women therefore can never understand enough to appreciate enough.
Women cannot fully appreciate burdens they have never had to carry themselves. When one is unfamiliar with a particular kind of sacrifice, one lacks the reference points necessary to measure its weight.
Without that reference, effort is often underestimated. And when effort is underestimated, gratitude becomes inadequate. Never enough.
The point is, sacrifice and appreciation do not always grow in equal proportion, and effort alone is no guarantee of the affection or loyalty for which it was spent. Don't heavy lift your way into a woman's life. Not the average woman. Not the single mother. It guarantees nothing. Nothing.
Una mujer te tira líquido en la cara, te insulta, te persigue, te ataca, mientras llevás varios minutos tratando de alejarte, y cuando acorralado procedés por fin a defenderte, te tratan de "cagón". ¿Quién carajo volvió a las mujeres seres de culto intocables? Actos traen consecuencias.
The average Nigerian man starts off the wooing process signaling wealth. He does not filter for genuine interest or at least, a little reciprocity. He "takes care" of things to prove himself a solid man to a woman whose feelings he's unsure of. He erroneously thinks money is all.