Ken Blackman

Relationship and intimacy expert
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@NielsHoven Not sure where or how you see that. The evil witch in Hansel and Gretel is pretty closely parallel to the Wizard and Dr. Morible in Wicked. A mythologist would classify them as very similar stories with the same moral message.

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@FrancescoD_Ales BENTO

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@FrancescoD_Ales NOTES

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@1eo @tanastack01 Well deserved

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@mindfulmaven_ It's easy to think problems end relationships. But most problems can be worked through. The real relationship killer is when the good isn't good enough to make it worth it.

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@dreetje @tana_inc @dreetje circling back to this. We discovered there's a subtle difference. @ puts it in the library. # puts it in the containing node—when you click into it, its parent is the node in which you created it. It's not a reference, the actual node lives there.

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What a Breakup Can Sound and Feel Like https://t.co/wBPJeIvG7I

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@thepericulum Hate dates. Love prunes tho. You'll prob disagree 🤷🏻‍♂️

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@thepericulum @kevinsimler Non-responsive of the ask, but...
He and I share a birthday, I'll be 61

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@mortenpx @IvoUIflip Disagree about integrations. Used correctly, they are the answer to *avoiding* bloat.

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@dreetje @tana_inc 😮 I've been doing it in two steps TOO!

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I have thoughts on it and/but want to hear yours.

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1/ What makes a relationship generative?

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6/ So here's a real question: what makes a relationship generative?

What has both people feel like the relationship gives them so much more than what it costs them?

What makes it so they both feel like the relationship is phenomenally "worth it"?

And what keeps it that way?

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@thepericulum ?