If parents bring their kids to church every weekend from birth to graduation, the church will influence them 920 hours. Parents get about 3,000 a year! Do both.
So you and your spouse disagree a lot? You must have married the right person! God told Adam he needed a helpmeet. This means a partner with a different opinion. You need each other’s differing perspective.
Need money? Jewish Rabbis teach if you will cherish and listen to your wife you will become wealthy. 1 Peter 3:7...you are heirs together of the grace of life...
The biggest thing Adam and Eve's marriage lost in the garden was their God connection. Jesus came to reconnect us. In your marriage, make a big deal about His presence.
It's a tough road to try to be a Christian alone. Yes, you need Jesus, but you will never flourish until you find your place in the body surrounded by other believers with a pastor leading.