If I got laid off tomorrow & had to replace my salary asap, here’s exactly what I’d do:
1. Go to Instagram and start a fresh account. Use a spare email. No one has to know.
I’ll keep saying it, a lot of you need to decenter that Instagram lavish way of life, so you can start thinking like normal humans.
You are a Nigerian , living in Nigeria, no special
talent or skill , fuel is 1300+, rent is skyrocketing everywhere, minimum wage is less than 100k. Trust me you are closer to being homeless than driving that 2025 gle.
You had to “borrow” money from your wife to pay the house rent that you’re both living in?
That same week she bought a wig?
Your wife is a terrible woman, keep lying to yourself
I don't fight her on it. I come home, eat whatever she cooked, (I don't select food, just don't want to stress her) say it's nice, and go to bed.
The house stays peaceful. My chest stays heavy.
Last month I was short and had to borrow to cover the house rent. She bought a new wig that same week.
She's not a bad woman. I know that.
But nobody told me that carrying everything alone in silence could make you feel so invisible inside your own home.
I don't even know how to start that conversation without breaking something.
Until you date a generous and responsible woman, you will never understand how much women love spending on the man they love and being financially responsible to the family.