Historically, 43 out of 45 U.S. presidents have authorized military force, including ground troop deployments to foreign countries, without a formal congressional declaration of war. The exceptions are Harrison and Taylor, due to their brief terms. Examples include Truman in Korea and Reagan in Grenada.
Poor people suffer. Rich people suffer. Single people suffer. Married people suffer. Entrepreneurs suffer. Employees suffer.
Suffering is a fixed cost of life.
So pick a life worth suffering for.