PSA: YOUR KIDS COME FIRST!‼️‼️‼️‼️They come before your Bf/Gf . They come before your friends. They come before partying. They come before drugs/alcohol. They come before your job. They come before money. They come before your car. They come before your own selfish wants, needs, desires, dreams. THEY COME FIRST POINT BLANK PERIOD!
One of the best things you can do for yourself in adulthood, is to learn how to leave things alone.
Just leave it alone. Situations, people, whatever it is, leave it alone.
Ngl after a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn't do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth... just basking in your toxicity huh?