The first time an adult made fun of you or dismissed you for being excited, loud, or fun, was the first time your inner child learned people aren't safe.
Wanting to self isolate is the first sign you're waking up. The desire to disconnect from a dysfunctional world is the highest form of emotional intelligence.
@Theholisticpsyc People act like wanting to be alone is a problem. But sometimes it's the most sane response to an insane environment. You're not broken because you want peace. You're awake enough to realize that constant noise and drama isn't normal and you don't have to participate in it.
a sign of healthy femininity is being able to stand up and express emotions like irritation, anger without shame. a healthy woman will not suppress herself. she respects herself too much to get autoimmune diseases and hormonal imbalances trying to control others perception of her
Gratitude multiplies effort. When you stop obsessing over what’s missing and start appreciating what’s working, your mind calms down and your energy finally has somewhere productive to go. Peace follows perspective.
Você não é a ponte que o outro atravessa para encontrar o que queria em outro lugar.
Você não é a pessoa que salva.
Não é o “atalho” para que outros encontrem alguém melhor.
Não é a mão que constrói uma ponte que você mesmo(a) nunca vai atravessar. 🧵
Introverts are kind people, but if you piss them off, they'll ignore your whole existence. They're givers. They love. They care. They reciprocate. They'll give you chances after chances. Over & over again. But once they've had it, they don't revenge, they just disappear forever.