I’ve watched a friend let go of a friend and she’s glowing! I’m witnessing her find her style/self it’s beautiful to see.
Sometimes it’s the company you keep that’s holding you back.
I have a short list of people I’d trust with anything. and every person on that list got there the same way: they did what they said they’d do, repeatedly, in moments when it would’ve been easy not to. they showed up, they followed through, they sent the thing, they made the call, they remembered. small stuff, done right, on repeat.
I only want to be in close relationships with people who know how to do repair with the actual desire to save important relationships more than their ego. Those who are willing to not only demand accountability, but also take accountability when they hurt others.
why would u meet the person you’re gonna marry in a fucked up way? why would your life partner make you beg, cry, chase & second guess. That doesn’t make spiritual sense. Break up. Move on
i think it's beautiful how life gives you infinite chances to experience better. just when you think you'll never find better, you walk right into better and your heart softens again