my friendship ick is when i’ve done big financial favors for someone and they ask me back for stupid amounts. like i dashed you 50k and you ask me back for 1500 u used to buy chips for me.
I figured out that the reason why when you help many Nigerians, they add more energy to begging you constantly is ‘cos they don’t see your prior assistance as a single good deed, but as a confirmation that you’re indeed their helper. A manifestation of their spiritual belief.