the amount of women that have to coddle their man, walk on eggshells, turn the other cheek, pray, pray, pray, go to therapy, constantly vent to their friends…just to tolerate & stay with a man is just overall too much for me. if a man hasn’t worked on himself enough already- NO.
Being mean is so WEIRD to me. I genuinely don’t get any pleasure from embarrassing, belittling, or just overall hurting people’s feelings. Something wrong with some of y’all spirits fr. You gotta be in a very dark place to feel good by making people feel bad.
You deserve someone who can’t wait to talk to you, spend time with you, get to know you and fall in love with you. Please stop settling for halfhearted, lukewarm, hesitant and indecisive. It’s so much better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.
men these days always want you to coddle them for them hurting you and disappointing you. you don’t even get the space to feel, because their fear of being the bad guy takes precedence over anything that they put you through. and that’s fucking sick.
Changing your habits is so hard. Trying to rewrite a narrative you’ve believed your entire life is so hard. Being consistent with something that doesn’t reap immediate rewards is so hard.
Strength and good vibrations to anyone doing the work. Whatever it looks like to you. 💓
Yall don't care about your own mental health. Y'all don't seek therapy you just go around hurting people bc of your unhealed trauma with no regard to how it impacts others.