for madonna to think she is the reason any woman in rap can speak about sex is genuinely a display of the delusions of grandeur that white people suffer from. black women in rap paved the way and created the space for women to speak openly about sex not her sex book.
WOMEN WITH FATHER TRAUMA OFTEN HAVE:
- Saturn harshly aspecting Moon (emotion felt restricted, unsupported, or emotionally abandoned)
- Sun in 8H or 12H (father figure feels distant, absent, secretive, or emotionally unreachable)
- Moon conjunct Saturn (grew up suppressing needs to avoid rejection or criticism)
- Chiron in 4H (deep childhood wound tied to safety, family, and emotional belonging)
- Mars in Cancer or Pisces (anger gets internalized instead of expressed directly)
- Pluto aspecting Sun (power struggles, fear, control issues, or emotional intensity around father figures)
- Capricorn Moon or heavy Saturn influence (forced to mature too early and emotionally parent themselves)
Tamar Braxton sent a text to Kandi telling her she needed to get on PrEp (an HIV prevention drug) because her husband Todd is a member of the LGBT community.
Saturn Darakaraka 🪨
You could prefer serious, long-term relationships. “Don’t you play games with me.” Quick flings aren’t your thing; you’re nobody’s temporary solution. But I think even if you don’t go out looking for serious relationships, you still may find yourself in them anyway. You may be attracted to strict, stern individuals who are also quite ambitious. Or you like people who have a bit of originality. People who do their own thing in their own ways and don’t care what other people think. You want stable partnerships with intelligent people. You also need a spouse who’s dependable. If you can’t count on them, what good are they??
Saturn DK indicates a mature spouse who takes all commitments and their vows very seriously. They're solid as a rock. You can expect them to stick around for a while, especially if their Saturn placement falls in your seventh house. “I’m not going anywhere.” Your spouse is responsible. Disciplined. Reasonable. A real adult. Lol! They say what they mean and mean what they say. I think the best part about a Saturn DK is that your person will be tenacious. They won’t give up easily. Starting from day one, they’ll be mentally prepared for the hard times so they’re more than willing to work through whatever issues that come up. They won’t be afraid to speak their mind when they need to or to go against society’s expectations. They can root for the underdogs and they might even have a soft spot for humanity. They just can’t stand to see anyone suffering or in need.
Whenever there’s something bothering you, you must speak up. Let them know right away. High chance they won’t be any good at catching on to any of your hints. They understand much better when you’re speaking frankly and succinctly.
Saturn DK can also give sort of a “no nonsense” type of attitude when it comes to choosing a partner so sometimes (not all the time) this can lead you to marry later than most others. And that’s okay; some of you may actually prefer this. Also, some of you will prefer a traditional role in your marriage. Others of you can insist on a totally unconventional marriage agreement. Same goes for your spouse as well.
With a challenged or debilitated Saturn, your spouse could often break their promises, even if they mean well. They feel good making promises in the moment but then later will feel as though they’ve boxed themselves into a corner and now their freedom is being restricted. Next thing you know, they’re cancelling on you when you’ve been expecting them to come through for you. Commitment issues. Inconsistencies. Unreliable. Some of their problems can stem from not knowing when they should follow suit or when they should break free and blaze their own path. They can miss opportunities because their timing is off. They will either take action too soon or too late, leaving them with feelings of regret. So then that brings about problems or delays with realizing their goals, which forces them to scrap their current plans and come up with a new one.
Spouse will have strong 10H, 11H, Aquarius or Capricorn placements such as M/A/R/K/S.
@BitterCheri Aquarius moon here, and I already had an argument with my brother. I realised that I am the parentifed eldest daughter constantly supporting everyone, but no one cares when I need help...smh. I won't sacrifice for my family.
My moon saturn conjunction is always screaming at me.
@BitterCheri Wow! So, spot on. I am a Taurus rising and finally realised that I am actually gorgeous, lol. I used to be insecure about my stretch marks but looked in the mirror yesterday and thought...fu*k that, I still look good.
i follow a food scholar (she has a less clumsy title i’m forgetting) but she’s an academic who specialises in food distribution, agricultural trends etc
anyway a year ago she predicted that as food prices rise, food will become really popular in luxury fashion trends, decor etc
If there is childhood trauma or toxic bonds you may choose to stay in places ripe with cruelty because internally you are trying to resolve the place within that has been neglected or abused. Staying in that abusive spaces only fuels that vis
@10HSUN6HMOON Ketu conjunct ascendant and my paternal grandmother raided me until I was 5. I have been told that spiritually, my paternal anscestors protect me the most.