It really doesn't even hurt anymore when she says these things other than they are lies. What really hurts is the fact that she has her sister, who was my shadow and best friend, into thinking like this too. That's what hurts.
All I can say, is my daughters were raised in a house with love and affection. Where these strange memories are coming from, I don't know. My ex wife and I brought our children up in a more loving home than I could have ever dreamed of.