i think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this and only thinking about others.
No way I can workout, eat three meals at home, spend no money, see my friends, work my full time job, work my freelance job, have a boyfriend, and read my book within a day. And everyday. Like how do I do it all, I am suffering
ALSO this is the first year where I’m not picking at my body or body image and just loving how I look & feel. And BRO does it change the experience
No shade, more like insight: but every year, who I THINK is going to show up and show out for birthday energy doesn’t. And those who I least expect do. And it teaches me to go with the flow and just be vs live in a world of rigid expectations & I love that for me
Normally I’m so anxious around my bday but this year I feel so content and relaxed. The confidence that comes with getting older is something I’ve been looking forward to for a long time
I hate you transplant girlies deadass. & don’t rep it if you haven’t been to the Bronx/East Harlem/ Flatbush/ Canarsie more than once either.
Y’all don’t know NY, but fuck it y’all cool I guess. Call me a hater idccccc I’m over it 😭
I am struggling lately w how I manage my time bruh. Between realizing that I want to reprioritize my older friendships and all my jobs… 😭 and my love life and wellness…. AND FAMILY? nah bruh
Honestly, I love how Michael and Jay are both equally unhinged but they take turns with it. While one is acting up, the other is the voice of reason, and then they switch. It’s the kind of foolery I want lmao