Shame is not really an effective method to change ideologies/belief systems. Ok she is marriage centered, now is not the time to pile on her. She was cheated on!
Every outrage should be toward the man. Instead of judging her, we should constructively try to change her mentality
Nothing I hate more than a weird friendship dynamic, I’ll remove myself from the situation fast fast. Don’t bring your unfortunate feelings and behavior to my side.
A friend whose wedding I wouldn’t know about probably isn’t in my Tier 1 of friends (and yes, I have different tiers 😂). For the rest of my friends, I don’t think I’d be pissed enough to cut them off. I’d wish you well and leave it at that. In fact, thank you for being thoughtful enough to save me the expenses that would have come with attending the wedding. 😂