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[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

@SymplyVee Chat gpt

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

“As how”
Kaii jama’aaaa

[Hafsah❤️ @RufaiHafsat1]

As how?

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

KADUNA GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!! Please retweet and likeeeeee

[Aisha Hamman @AyshaHamman]

In 2018, while working as a community mobiliser on a sexual and reproductive health and rights project in Kano State, we regularly engaged women in rural communities. During one of those sessions, a woman said to us:

“Malama, don Allah, kamar yadda kuke tara mata kuna koya mana abubuwa, don Allah ku dinga tara mazajenmu kuna nuna musu muhimmancin zuwa asibiti da neman magani. Saboda sau da yawa za ki ga muna fama da infection ko sanyi. Idan mun je asibiti an ba mu magani, ana ce mana mu gaya wa mazajenmu su zo su karɓi magani, saboda idan mun warke su ba su warke ba, za su iya sake sa mana cutar. Amma mazajenmu sai su ƙi zuwa asibiti, su ce wai muna tona musu asiri. Wani ma zai iya sakin matarsa saboda ta gaya masa ya je asibiti. Ita kuma idan an sake ta, wani lokacin samun wani mijin yana zama da wahala, saboda ana cewa ba ta iya rufa wa mijinta asiri.”

In translation, she was saying:

“Please, just as you gather women and educate us, we would appreciate it if you also engaged our husbands and taught them the importance of going to the hospital and receiving treatment for sexually transmitted infections. Many times, we suffer from infections and, when we go to the hospital, we are treated and advised to bring our husbands for treatment too, because if we recover while they remain untreated, they may infect us again. But when we ask our husbands to go to the hospital, some become offended and accuse us of exposing their shame. In some cases, a man may even divorce his wife for asking him to seek treatment. A woman divorced under such circumstances may also struggle to remarry because she becomes stigmatised and accused of being unable to conceal her husband’s shame.”

This was in 2018, and in 2026, you are promoting the dangerous idea that a “good wife” is one who hears but pretends not to hear, sees but pretends not to see and remains silent regardless of what her husband does, all in the name of preserving the dignity of marriage.

Who raised you guys to think like this?

Since when did “matar rufin asiri” come to mean a woman who must ignore persistent betrayal, silence herself and protect a grown man from the consequences of his own choices? Do you not realise that protecting the privacy of a marriage is not the same as concealing misconduct or tolerating repeated infidelity or sacrificing one’s dignity, health and peace to preserve a man’s public image.

Islam does not normalise zina or present infidelity as an ordinary male weakness that women must tolerate. It, in contrast, treats sexual immorality as a grave offence. So what makes anyone think it is acceptable to normalise cheating, or gaslight women into enabling wayward partners who behave as though infidelity is their birthright, and then condemn every woman who chooses to walk away because she cannot continue living with a man alleged to be a chronic womaniser?

Why should the responsibility for a man’s discipline, loyalty and sexual conduct be transferred to his wife? Why should she be praised for pretending not to see what threatens her emotional and physical well-being, while he is excused from accountability?

Please do not use this mindset to raise your daughters, whether you have them now or may have them in the future. This thinking is one of the reasons many women are suffering and dying in silence, are repeatedly infected with life-threatening sexually transmitted infections because they are taught that their chastity is synonymous with overlooking their husband’s inadequacies. You’re suggesting women should remain trapped in harmful marriages because society tells them that marriage is “for better or worse” and that a woman’s virtue is measured by how much humiliation, betrayal and danger she can endure without speaking.

A woman who truly loves you and wants the best for you in both worlds would never turn deaf ears or a blind eye to wrongdoing by pretending not to see it.

Ka je ka nema ilimi.

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

@zillionokoye @MrCharlesky I’m interested

[ʇuᴉɐS📍 @saint_cloudy]

christina yang did not perform surgery with a gun pointed to her head to be compared to the guy who got fired on day 1 of his internship

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

Contract staff in FirstBank don’t get promoted through the regular staff ranks. A contract employee would have to be converted to permanent staff before any promotion process. A made up story!!

[Femzy💫 @FemzyDr0]

My wife works as a contract staff in a First Bank branch in Abuja, She often complained that her colleagues who started with her had been promoted to Senior banking staff while she remained stuck,

I suggested she quit and become a full time housewife, offering to open mini stores for her, but she got angry, & refused saying she can’t be reduced to an ordinary housewife with all her qualifications……

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

Promotion as a contract staff? In first bank?

[Femzy💫 @FemzyDr0]

My wife works as a contract staff in a First Bank branch in Abuja, She often complained that her colleagues who started with her had been promoted to Senior banking staff while she remained stuck,

I suggested she quit and become a full time housewife, offering to open mini stores for her, but she got angry, & refused saying she can’t be reduced to an ordinary housewife with all her qualifications……

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

Garwashi, matan gida, wani dare, kaddara, labarina, allura cikin ruwa, manyan mata Duk dai gasu nan

[d4rkr34p3r666 @reimufan099]

Has anyone else realized there's nothing to fucking watch on youtube anymore

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

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[‘deola. @deyola_a]

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[Idris @7signxx]

Please kindly spread his recitations, may Allah have mercy on his soul and grant him Jannatul Firdaus...

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

@fatiitii_ My sister 😂😂😂

[Tauhida. @maryamtauhida_]

THE reunion of the century. A royal homecoming was had!!! I wanna live it again

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

Yassssss!!!!!! 😭❤️

[Pop Crave @PopCrave]

‘The Twilight Saga’ is returning to theaters this October.

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

@a6dulmalik_ It’s so crazy 😂

[khadija @khadija_dalhat]

Next of kin na iya Shege a banki Wallahi 😂 in dai murnar cin kudin gado ne

[TROUBLE @temi_arike]

1 is hold on
2 is pick two
5 is pick three
8 is suspension
14 is general market
20 is I need

If it's not like this, then I don't know what you're playing

[𝐻ussainmk. @hussainimk]

Please rt fisabililah. Don’t be tired.

[HUSBAND OF SHOLA @iconic_remi]

If say you don borrow money do transport fare for first one month straight you won’t ask us this