Couples in healthy relationships also argue, have different opinions, feel frustrated, insecure and bored at times. Healthy doesn't mean perfect. What makes a relationship perfect is HOW you choose to move through those challenges TOGETHER.
It begins with Phuza Thursday, the warm-up that spills into Friday and Saturday, the official binge drinking days. Sunday, once a sacred day for family and rest, now stands proud on the drinking calendar. Then comes Mogodu Monday, stretching the weekend binging.
By Tuesday, the cumulative five-day hangover sets in; Wednesday is shaky. Come Thursday, the whole cycle starts again. We joke about it, but I doubt our children are in on the joke. They grow up watching us parents lost and submerged in bottles. In the process, their emotional needs are met half way, productivity in workplaces suffers under the weight of exhaustion and alcohol-induced brain fatigue.
May we all remember that each binge steals hours from our selves and our children. Each binge weakens our homes and chips away at our dignity and the future we claim to be building.
PS. Don’t mind me. I’m just a grumpy, boring old fart. Where do I get off writing this nonsense. Rha sies! Uzenza ‘bhetere’ la Lupi. Xa eqale wangubani yena. O nagana o gore o mang- kgosi ya lefatshe
You’ve got to be willing to embarrass yourself when building your little venture. What started as a side hustle is now an English startup, offering classes to kids in Korea, Singapore & Malaysia. Look how much fun the kiddos had at our summer camp program. 💫🥺🙏🏾
growing up, my maternal side has always been rooted in tradition and spirituality, watching #Ubizo always reminds me of the customs and ways of doings things which my late gran has left us with. It’s always vital to comprehend where you from to understand where you going
In many African cultures, it's believed that angry or unhappy ancestors can cause blockages or challenges in our lives. The idea is that if our ancestors are not honored or acknowledged, their energy can manifest in negative ways and this is evident on today’s episode of #Ubizo
Ubizo isn’t just a show. It’s something you feel. Spiritually. Emotionally. Personally. It makes you pause and reflect on things you didn’t even know needed healing.
#ubizo@MzansiWethu
Father to Actress and Musician Tu Nokwe, grandfather to Actress and Model Nirvana Nokwe, Greatgrandfather to Musicians BikosManna… The Legacy continues.
There are new players in Nandi and Jacob’s game and they are setting things ablaze. Fatal Seduction season 2 premieres 15 August, ONLY on Netflix. 🔥🔥🔥 #FatalSeduction
Another incredible female director I’ve had the privilege to work with who inspires me!
Shem, bo girl!! Truly, we look at your work and how you work with us as actors…may your territory expand sisi❤️. Young, gifted, talented, female directors.
There is just an aura that a loyal man carries that cannot be beat… 🥹🤞🏽
Like what do you mean you love your wife/partner so much that all the women around are invisible? Yoh, I genuinely respect men who are like that. Some men really respect themselves and their partners, I wish I could roll a red carpet for them whenever their feet touch the ground because Loyalty is such a commendable act!!
In running a business, you ain’t a real one if you as a owner get your pay check and your “people’s” don’t get their ends. Sometimes you gotta run everything down and be down to zero and survive on a prayer vs you being straight and your “workers” have to survive on a prayer 🤲🏽
.there are not many movies out there about specifically the Sharpeville Massacre, mostly just clips. Most documentaries aren't free, like this one. 21 March 1960 was a watershed moment in our fight against the apartheid system. Painful history must be told! ✊🏿😫😥🙆🏾♀️
For the first time Amapiano class in India 🇮🇳 and already the vibe is vibing the flow is flowing 🔥 wow I’m impressed #limpopoboy🇿🇦 #sa#foryou
Danko @afrodancersindia
Choreographed by @Mahlatsbujwa
Saw a gentle brother selling scones in the rain this morning. Bought some. Not cause I wanted scones but because to walk up and down a major road at like six in the morning, getting rained on whilst trying to move scones takes something special. God bless the homie’s hustle 🤍
Last week I overslept when I had super early meeting 🥹 I got ready in 15mins, ran out of the house leaving my bedroom a mess. I got back home expecting to clean up but to my surprise, my bed was made, room clean. I said a little prayer of gratitude for my sweet boy. ❤️