Out of ten men, one makes a sexual joke at a woman, two laugh, three fake a chuckle to fit in, and four stay silent. None of them speak up. Later, nine of them still believe they're the "good guys." But from the woman's perspective, the laughter, the silence, the looking away, it all creates the same environment. So when women say"most men are the same," this is what they mean: not that every man harasses women, but that most men help protect the system that does.
Please dump on me. I’m here to be dumped on. No friend in my life should ever feel like their emotions are too much for me. They’ll NEVER be too much. If I ever close myself off from you it’s because it’s not reciprocated, never because you’re too much.