i wanna relationship that i can still do my best in.. not a relationship where I feel I have to leave in order to focus on myself .. I wanna focus on myself right there with you and feel secure about it
Trauma makes you please others and drain yourself by focusing too much on how they feel and making sure they feel ok. Healing makes you realize it's not your responsibility to regulate other people's emotions and manage their insecurities.
Daily reminder: Life will get better as soon as you let go of what you assume life is supposed to be like right now. Relax , if you stress you suffer twice. Everything is running right on schedule , divine timing exists.
women's intuition ain't no joke 😭 i really be minding my business, cool, at peace and then my body starts screaming "there's a problem" and every time i try to tell myself to chill, it's not deep, it's not serious, i'm overthinking it, i'm doing too much, i be right in the end.