Helping people is a gamble.
A few will be grateful and remember you for life.
Many will ride on like you only existed for that moment.
Need has a way of making people humble temporarily.
People will come to you when life has cornered them... cry... beg... make promises from a place of desperation.
But once life gives them space again, they can make you question yourself. Painting your kindness as foolishness.
But that is life…
We become bridges in people’s lives, and they will cross through your sacrifice, your support, your love, your presence…
And after crossing, it's Au revoir.
Painful, yes...
But understand this, being good is not a business where every investment brings profit. Even your good can K.I.L.L you...
So be GAMBLE AWARE.
Build yourself to be ready for the worst type of pain… because it will come and surviving it depends on how you build your emotional and mental strength today.
We all have a story... The weakest and most used version of me came when I practiced forgiveness without boundaries.
Expect surprise from anybody, including those you think can’t surprise you.
Switching is real.
Never build your life on assumptions.
People change when their interests change.
People change when your position changes.
90% of the time, these people were part of you... friends, family, people you once defended with your whole chest.
Time reveals what emotions hide. And that is life bringing you back to the drawing board to:
1. Learn who to tell your plans.
2. Learn who to celebrate with.
3. Learn who to keep at a distance.
The goal is to become aware.
Have a good heart, but don’t be careless with it.
Anybody can surprise you... Both the quiet ones, the close ones, the old ones, including the ones who promised they never would.
So stay awake...
And when this hits you, keep these 3 things in mind:
1. Adjust your access.
2. Protect your peace.
3. Keep climbing.
Life will not stop because of your pain, or grief... So by every means, you must keep finding your way, even when life is lifing you.
@MrMekzy_ I don't think this one has seen dead body before,
When she die make she check out hell na, since we don't know anything about that one. She might feel safe there 😃🤣😂