always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you,sometimes you're the toxic one. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. see the things you need to work on. apologize, unlearn and relearn. that's growth
i hate arguing now. i realized that it’s really a turn off for me. i like equal accountability and no pointing fingers and easy solutions. all that other stuff be having my head hurting. like bro forget it lmao you right just leave me alone
I won't marry a man who chooses silence after a fight and leaves me alone with overthinking. I won't choose someone who walks away when things get hard instead of staying to fix what was broken. I need a man who listens even when it's uncomfortable, who cares enough to ask if I'm okay, and who makes me feel safe enough to open my heart without fear. I know I deserve a love that stays through storms, not a love that disappears when things get heavy.