how your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.
The most dangerous anger comes from someone with a good heart.
They hold it in, stay calm, and forgive, until one day, they can't anymore. Don't push a good person too far.
birthdays will be a huge deal in my household. i don't want my children to EVER refer to the day they were born as just another day. that breaks my heart.
Sometimes as an adult you have to decide "this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way" and stand on it. Be it family, a relationship or a friendship.
the more i learn about avoidant attached people the more i feel bad for them. imagine having so much to say to someone you love, yet no way to say it because vulnerability and intimacy don’t feel safe.
s/o to the girls who's going after a new life! Be patient w/yourself and your journey & remember that whatever is meant for you, won't miss you at all. give yourself grace, it's all going to work out for your greater good! Heavy on believing in God's plan & timing, he hear you.💕