Literally the only way to control your own destiny is to deny the “effects” others impose or apply on you no matter how small. Shaping your destiny is having the ability to choose what effects interact with you. Either be materials or states of mind
In the theory or pure systems logic (cause-limite=effect) literally the purpose of life (hack destiny) is to defining your own effect or denying extrenal effects. Ultimately denying the perpetual effect applied to 3D geometries.. entropy. Creating negative entropy (harmony)
@luhyoumf If purpose of kind people is to propagate that kindness. The purpose of bad people its to propagate evil (create villains). If kind people become villans (because of bad events) then they already lost.