Pretending to put a condom on or taking it off during is 100% rape. If the person AGREED/CONSENTED to sex with a condom and you fake put it on or you remove it. You’re literally engaging in sex they DID NOT CONSENT TO and we have a word for nonconsenual sex.
I would just like to remind y’all that not every nurse is a mean girl and a lot of them DO care about your wellness and safety. Please be kind to your nurses.