to whom this may concern;
be patient with you. some days feel heavier than others but these are the ebbs and flow of life. you’re doing the best you can and the last thing you need is to add more weight to your bag by being too hard on yourself.
🚩 red flags:
-they're surprised when you win
-they ghost until they need you
-they always try to one-up you
-they never return the favor
-they never apologize
When doctors or surgeons or pharmacists make an honest mistake in their healthcare profession they face charges. WHY ARE COPS NOT HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR MURDER ESPECIALLY WHEN IT WAS CAUGHT ON VIDEO????
accept who you are in this phase currently, but understand that who you are in this phase doesn’t have to remain etched permanently in your fabric. more spaces of growth await you, but you don’t have to carry everything that you were before to occupy them.
The right friend doesn’t need to do much to positively impact your vibe. Their laugh can easily make you laugh, the way they reach for their goals fills you with inspiration, their presence helps you put your guard down. When you two are together you both simply become stronger.
you have to know people for who they are. not for who you expect them to be. that means you have to commit to getting to know them on an emotionally intimate level. knowing someone is different than reacting to them based off your expectations.
Being a true good friend means ur probs gonna be taken for granted sometimes and not always have energy reciprocated...but still having compassion, the ability to not take shit personally, and forgive ends up being the best for everyone involved