taem's eng was 100% grammatically correct and getting mad because he referred to jh in past tense is idiotic just because tm isnt following ur struct shwl rules. tm knew him better than a random twt user ever did
@timtamtaem you know what, if someone doesn’t wanna acknowledge it, that’s fine by me. it’s a hard thing to do. i think it’s unhealthy to pretend but it’s their life. what they’re not gonna do is turn around and make everyone, esp his loved ones, play along with it
@moonriverwltz feelings are grief are relative! and everyone is different! and all policing does is cause more upset and take away from the time we should be spending appreciating him
@moonriverwltz oh god yeah i was such a mess for like 2 years. but nearly 10 years on, i think people would fare a lot better if they realised that everyone is different. like he IS my sexy most talented bling bling boyfriend in the world AND he died and i miss him and i wish he was still here
@moonriverwltz ha sometimes i think u & i are just good at grieving. when u lose a lot of people like we have, u almost have a system for it. i think losing jjong was the first time some people felt those intense feelings and the distance makes it feel like there’s nowhere for the sadness to go
@moonriverwltz i think for me it’s just like… inner peace. what has happened has happened and there’s nothing you or i or he can do to change that. it’s healthier to accept that than to live in that state of denial and anger forever - not to mention, i don’t think it’s how he’d want us to feel