i love flowers bcs somehow i see a little bit of myself in them. they blooms in their own time, survive through changing seasons, and still find a way to beautiful✨
trust me… perempuan gampang jatuh cinta depends on how a guy treat her more consistency, more efforts, and more reassurance makes she feel good enough and secure with the relationship
suka banget sama orang yang bisa diajak ngobrolin apa aja. from random little things to deep conversations, semuanya kayak ngalir aja, no akward, no topics, just a genuinely good conversation🫶
the older i get the more i realize that silence can be a form of intelligence. bukan karna gak punya jawaban, but sadar ternyata ada orang yang bahkan gak layak buat dikasih penjelasan
physical attractions is one thing, but intellectual atrraction?? gila sihhhhhhhh. bayangin ketika kamu ngobrol sama seseorang dan makin lama makin kagum sama cara dia berpikir, cara dia ngejelasin sesuatu, dan banyaknya hal yang dia tau. and then kamu jadi sadar, ternyata kamu gak cuma tertarik sama orangnya but juga sama cara dia melihat dunia😭🤏
pls don’t choose a partner based on potential alone. but liat juga bagaimana dia memperlakukan lu sekarang, bagaimana dia bertanggung jawab atas kesalahannya, dan bagaimana dia menghadapi konflik. bcs love can make you imagine a beautiful future with someone but emotional maturity, mutual respect, and consistent effort can help you build that future in real life
ngobrol sama orang yang emotionally mature dan punya empati yang tinggi tuh emang beda level ya. saking nyamannya jadi bisa cerita apa aja tanpa takut dihakimi, gak dikit-dikit diinvalidasi, gak dibandingin juga dengan pengalaman dia sendiri. that kind of connection feels like healing💗