She is not special.
You made her special.
She can't get someone better than you.
You can get someone better than her.
Know the difference.
You didn't lose her.
She lost you.
You are the man.
You are the prize.
How to Plan Your Finances as a Newcomer in Canada:
1. First, understand that leaving Nigeria is not a get-rich-quick solution. Don’t have the mentality that things will start going well immediately after you land for you to start sending money home.
This is Igbos , Yorubas and Hausa all in 1948 . Now judging from this video , The people in the video , the people you can see in the back ground , The environment. You can tell who was more primitive as at 1948. who the bushmen were .. who civilisation hasn’t really touched
If a man can't attract women when he's broke, he'd have a harder time finding a woman who genuinely loves him when he gets rich.
And this is because a broke man doesn't use money to attract women. So if women stay with him, they stayed because they saw something more important to them than money.
It could be his potential, his confidence, his self-esteem, his personality, his game, his bedroom skills, his purpose & ambition—all of which are components of true masculinity.
So when such a man eventually gets rich, the size of his dating pool triples, as he'd court the attention of different kinds of women, some of whom he will attract with money. And others, with his personality, skills, game, charm & so on.
On the otherhand, the guy who couldn't pull a 9 when he was broke, would find it difficult to attract women without money, because he knows without it, his personality is shitty.
As such, he would only attract women who are interested in his money — the worst of women.
There's a world of difference between both men:
The former is a player who could act like a simp to game a woman, but the latter is the simp who can't act like a player to game any lady.
That said,
If you can't attract women when you're broke, they can't genuinely love you when you're rich.
Men are not born; they are made.
You have to go through pain, adversity, discipline to become a man.
Behind every successful man is his sweat, his tears, his pain, his failures, & above all else, his determination to succeed.
So if you're going through tough times now, keep it moving!
You're not horny, you're just lonely
You're not lonely, you're just bored
You're not bored, you don't have a purpose
Find your purpose & let it kill you!
People want you to vote for ethnic kinsmen but their campaign strategy is cvrsing your Ethnic identity, rewriting your history and spitting on your Obas and heroes? Yet you supported them and remained in that camp?
You dare not call out their evil, you are quickly tagged a bigot or you are asked that "will that change the price of Garri? When they know you are useless and your whole existence is built on food! Your race, identity and civilization means nothing to you and some low backw;ard baboo;ns can use Nigerian politics to denigrate your ancestral heritage?
Those who cvrse Yoruba Obidients everyday are justified. They are the wor:st of the Yoruba society...Any race that has such accvrsed people in their ranks is certain of extinct;ion.
The only solution to this Yoruba Obidients is to treat them as hostiles. This is not about Tinubu, it's about a group of people within the Yoruba people who advocate for the destruction of the Yoruba people in the hands of our eternal enemies.
There are no shortcuts when you want to find a spouse.
Stop letting those who are getting married every weekend deceive you.
You don't know their journey.
Stop letting those rich men who decide to take more wives deceive you.
Their first wife is mostly their main wife.
Anger issues is a red flag you don't want to ignore in a woman you want to marry.
This is why cohabitation is necessary. You never fully know someone until you've lived with them.
• Does she starve you whenever she's angry?
• Does she break things whenever she's angry?
• Does she hit you whenever she's angry?
• Does her anger vanish few minutes it comes on or you have to wait till the next 24 hours?
• Does she pick on your fears/weaknesses whenever she's angry?
• Can you tease her whenever she's angry?
All these are questions you need answers to before giving her your ring.
And sometimes to get answers, you need to push her breaking points. A proper vetting technique.
Remember,
Anger is the wine that reveals a person's true character.
ArchBishop Idahosa went to a city to minister…
Some pressmen arranged to set him up, to frame him for adultery.
He got back to his hotel room after ministering, went straight to bed to sleep.
About 2 hours later, he heard a shout of fire, fire, fire 🔥 inside his room.
He checked to confirm where the sound was coming from & saw a woman terribly burnt inside the wardrobe.
The woman’s cloth has been burnt to ashes, her skin burnt & peeling off, but there was not a single trace or smell of fire in the room, no smoke; likewise, the wardrobe and items inside were intact.
The woman confessed that some pressmen paid her to lie by his side once he was fully asleep & they come in take pictures of him with a naked woman beside him in bed, so as to destroy him & his ministry.
She was rushed to the hospital, but she died 6 days later.
That was the kind of raw fire 🔥 ArchBishop Benson Idahosa carried.
Touch not my anointed, & do my prophets no harm.
"Privacy is power. People can’t destroy what they don’t know" - Kizz Daniel advices Davido
“Nobody knows how much I charge for shows because I don’t put it out there. I never come publicly to talk properties or money. You don’t see me hang out with celebs or anything. My life is quite private.
"Nobody knows my wife or any important things about me. I feel like this generation is so much in a haste to prove things when in reality they don’t have anything.
"Even with my kids I’m very disciplined, it’s my brother Uthman that spoils them. They see me as the discipline master but one day it will make sense to them.
"Privacy is power. People can’t destroy what they don’t know.“
Kizz Daniel