IF YOU HAVE ADHD, PLEASE LEARN ABOUT LIMERENCE BEFORE IT RUINS YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.
It’s not "finding your soulmate." It is a severe, involuntary dopamine addiction masquerading as romance.1/7
One thing I’m learning as a sex therapist in training is that your BDSM personality will expose your real relationship needs.
Being a brat, a sub, a rope bunny, prey, a switch, a masochist it’s not “just kinky.” It’s your attachment style with the lights dimmed.
Brats want someone who can match them.
Subs need consistent leadership, not control.
Rope bunnies crave safety and structure.
Prey needs clear pursuit.
Switches need flexibility.
Masochists want intensity and presence. 1/2