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Dating in your 30s is wild because how were we discussing marriage yesterday and today you’re throwing away the entire relationship away because having one uncomfortable conversation was too much for you?
Please have hobbies in your 30s, so you don’t become overly focused on relationships, other people’s availability, or what’s missing in your life.
Run, dance, read, travel, try new things, make friends, and fall in love with your own life. There’s so much more to experience.
Y'all are so busy keeping score of YOUR sacrifices that you never stopped to ask how many dreams your husbands had to bury just to keep the family standing.
You think a husband driving a truck for 14 hours straight was living his dream?
You think a husband driving Uber and sleeping in his car dreamed of that as a boy?
You think a husband working as a security guard standing for 12 hours dreamed of holding a gate?
You think a husband who is a plumber with his hands in shit dreamed of that life?
You think a husband working in a warehouse lifting boxes until his spine gives out did that for FUN?
NO.
Men had dreams too. Bigger dreams than yours.
He wanted to be a pilot. A footballer. A businessman. A musician. He had plans.
But then life punched him in the mouth. Woman got pregnant. Rent doubled. Mother got sick. Bills piled up.
So he KILLED his dream with his own hands and went to work.
No announcement. No tears on Instagram. No TED Talk.
And when he dies at 58 from heart attack, high blood pressure, stroke from years of stress and silence
You will stand at his funeral and say "he was a good provider."
Not a dreamer.
Not a man who once wanted more.
Not a soul who sacrificed everything.
Just a provider.
That's all he will ever be to you. Shut up.
@James_IV_4753@MonicaMAlmaguer So because women are more emotional then men/ have different needs it's ok for us to limit or cut them off the same way they do men? No.
Everyone has a right to have their needs met. if you want to be in a monogamous relationship with that person then you have a responsibility
Everything most women want from a man costs money. Everything men want from a woman is free.
Yet even the free things (respect, accountability, and peace), most women still refuse to give.
accountability is so important to me. nobody is perfect but you’re not about to make me feel like my reaction to your actions is worse than the actions themselves.
I have a natural inclination to want to provide for a woman I like. It happens almost instantly once feelings start to develop. That feeling goes away the moment I see or feel she thinks she’s entitled to this. The “as he should” or “that’s what a man is supposed to do” mentality turns me off so bad