PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
I remember dating someone who would often share her feelings and expectations with me. She was essentially telling me how to love and treat her. Although I listened, I didn't truly apply what she said because I was still figuring myself out and assumed she'd always be around. To my surprise, she eventually left and ceased all communication. At first, I felt betrayed and harbored resentment towards her. However, I soon realized that she had been communicating her needs all along, while I had chosen to act according to my own whims. The lesson here is: if someone consistently communicates with you and your actions don't align with their messages, don't be taken aback when they choose to distance themselves. This holds true for all types of relationships, including friendships.