I find it difficult not arguing with writers I admire, I argue most with those I’ve personally canonized, often throwing them out and canonizing them again and throwing them out and so on.
Successfully dodging relapses is a good lifetime's work. Tactical, unrelenting, and an unforgiving job. More than one's household depends on it. Not all humans are monsters, especially those that were born to slay them.
Dear poet,
When you write, you free a little part of yourself with every word.
When you read, you unlock a new truth.
When you craft, you free others too.
Find connection and community in your pursuit. Open the doors for others.
Let the love in.