STARDUST

26 FAGGOTS IN A TRENCH COAT MADE OF FLESH {main: @aziebites} {18+}

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

ok so there should be more nonbinary people in government if that chart means anything

[The Striddest in the Game @deathbian]

@Dannyjokes A. there's about twice as many trans women as trans men
B. trans men are still *more often* actually present in leadership roles in queer organizations
C. people spend more time reacting negatively to trans women, putting disproportionate focus on us, while trans men suffer...

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

tired of antiblackness being looked over just bc someone is "funny" or whatever. idc if he apologized he was a grown ass adult when it happened. i do not forgive him.

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

why do ppl still glaze jschlatt i thought he was racist?????? do y'all just not gaf orrrr?????

[8BitRae 🏳️‍⚧️ (TADC spoilers) @8BitRay]

DUDE HOW THE HELL DID THEY GET THIS LINEUP???

THEY GOT THE BLAZE VA, JSCHLATT, CO HOST OF GAME GRUMPS, AND MUSICIAN FOR BANJO AND KAZOOIE?????????

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

(my real answer is i only ever self insert as the bottom)

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

i don't know if "insert" was the right word to use here

[starreaa @starreaa]

does anyone actually insert themselves as the bottom in ships bc im always self inserting as the top in fics. like that's my uke bro

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

hazbin hotel fans

[NO HOSTS NO MASTERS 🏴& @the_corvidae]

Lots of talk about conflating depiction with endorsement but we need to have a serious conversation about how many of you conflate depiction with critique.

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

my other primary fear response is freezing which can be seen as refusing to comply which is also very scary to me!!!!

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

see that's terrifying to me as someone with a strong fawn response. i smile instinctively when i'm uncomfortable, even if i don't want to.

[Heidi N. Moore @moorehn]

they hated that she wasn't scared. Her smile, her forgiveness, her easy manner. All of it was the opposite of the reaction that they're trying to illicit, which is fear. If you don't fear them, they spiral. They took the job to make people afraid of them.

[BBart @ naproxen sodium 220mg @bakedbananners1]

tabula rasa / "a blank slate"
(1/8)

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

@binthabibahh i'm working on it o7

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

yeah, growing up with parents who wouldn't let me do anything was so detrimental to my personal development in a way i don't know if i can ever fully recover from

[bint habibah @binthabibahh]

i think people don’t trust themselves enough with their decisions, opinions, abilities, etc & it comes from not taking the time out to know yourself through mistakes/ failures. i may elaborate.

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

saying "people should just assume" is harmful and regressive. just say you hate gnc and nonbinary people and go. im genuinely so tired of trans discourse leaving out nonbinary people or saying we should suck it up and deal with transphobia if it's "better" for binary trans ppl

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

asking for ppl's pronouns if ur unsure is good actually and saying otherwise is reinforcing the gender binary and gender stereotypes.

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

normalize asking ppl's pronouns if ur unsure! you are not getting mine right on the first try i promise it's easiest if you just ask.

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

binary trans people have been acting annoyed when ppl ask their pronouns like "it's so obvious" and it's driving me insane bc you people are really in love with the gender binary huh? you really don't give a shit about nonbinary people do you?

[Genie @lettersfromjuno]

Being a sheltered child sets you up for public humiliation and embarrassment btw! Everyone can tell you don’t go out much, don’t have the social skills, and can’t take care of yourself. If you shelter your child, you hate them, and it’s the rest of the world’s problem afterwards

[Martha Ahumuza @MarthaAhumuza]

It's so disorienting to grow up with over protective or overly involved parents and then be expected at some arbitrary point to suddenly know how to run your own life. They often frame it as love or protection and sometimes it is but the unspoken cost is that you don’t get to

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

"fuck this nonbinary person for choosing to express in a way that i don't like" oh my god do you not see how transphobic this is

[STARDUST @kittys_hellbox]

@AdaBarx "nonbinary people should limit their gender expression to appease transphobes" is not the hot take u think it is lmao. why is our way of displaying transness any less life-saving or important than a binary trans person's?

[valk ⭐️🫧 SHOP OPEN!! @8mipie]

🎄🫐 Beast of Deceit why so Deer!!?!?!?!
#shadowmilkcookie #crk #shadowsugar