Micro cheating is cheating. If you're talking to someone else without your partner knowing, then that's cheating. If you're going out with someone who's not a friend or not blood-related and your partner doesn't know, that's also cheating. If you're joking around with someone in a flirty way, that's cheating too.If you're flooding someone's inbox with messages without your partner knowing, that's cheating as well, especially if you're deleting the conversation because you don't want your partner to get mad. Well, that's also cheating, darling.
May I say, Avoidant Attachment is bullshit, sorry but wdym you make someone fall for you and suddenly left just because you cant handle the pressure? selfish, and the audacity to make yourself the victim. wow.
A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what's even worse? A man who pretends to be good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim...
lustful men will never be satisfied and that sounds miserable. Imagine having someone who loves you unconditionally, respects you and is ultimately perfect and you still can't be satisfied. you will always rot. you will always lose. that will forever be your downfall.
A narcissist will flip on a long term partner out of the blue when they did nothing after being caught in lies by someone else, stonewall them, refuse to give them answers, cover them up, psychologically abuse them for years while villainizing them…and pretend to be a victim.