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[Ous'B 💚 @BongsMahlangu_]

I was scrolling through my DMs when I found this.💀 I was traumatized.😭

[Lulu @bongyluaziey]

i understand now why breastfeeding does a lot to women mentally

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

women who have decentered men in their lives - give me your best advice

[𝙰𝙺 𝚄𝚉𝚄𝙼𝙰𝙺𝙸 🦊 @Akhona_PQ]

Skeem Saam tried to educate us about this. People on this app wanted to skin me alive when I told them Skeem Saam is right about coercion is rape. Even if the girl went to your house and changed her mind. That is rape.

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

My daddy issues are that my father is so amazing I had to learn the hard way that men are actually horrible people in real life.😭🤞

[Mapholoba @LuthandoFuze]

Mother’s Day is amazing because you never fear you’ll see your mom on someone else’s story. Father’s Day? Scenes bahlali scenes

[Roma @Romazehari]

The divorce rate is so high because MEN still want to live like their fathers did, but women no longer have to suffer like their mothers did.

[Mamello🧚🏽‍♀️ @MelloFelicia1]

Chile, enjoy the man. Don’t believe the man.

ENJOY THE MAN BUT DO NOT BELIEVE THAT MAN.

[Luna M ✨ @tiredfeminist_]

Because you don’t have to be in a relationship at all, let alone a monogamous one. If you have any principles then you’ll be honest with your partners and look for people who are also polyamorous. Cheating happens because you’re deceptive and selfish.

[The Culture Economy @thecultureecon]

I love that all the girls are finally agreeing that when you live in the shame of what he’s done to you, you are doing him a favour and protecting his image.

Let it burn.

[Annalise Keating @Ariannnyy_]

Cheating is a character flaw and I wish people weren’t so forgiving about it. It shows a willingness to deceive, to prioritize short-term desire over integrity, and to disregard the trust someone else has placed in them.

Disgusting.

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

I have this toxic trait of thinking I forgave someone only to sit back one day & all the thoughts of how that person did me dirty comes to hit back & I just never want to hear from them ever again. Especially if whatever they did was too much for me to handle😭😭

[SIR DREY (🍉,🍉) @_Dreyville]

Gotta eat pasta in italy, croissant in paris, burger in united states, sushi in japan, tacos in mexico, shawarma in lebanon, paella in spain, poutine in canada, kimchi in south korea, curry in india, pho in vietnam, fondue in switzerland and fish & chips in united kingdom.

[Thomas @Owishemwe]

Infidelity is such an interesting concept, you’re cheating on someone you chose to be with…like no one forced you to be with this person…it was a conscious decision you made to be with this person and now you’re cheating on them.

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

Some things don't go back to normal, even after an apology. Once you’ve seen how someone can hurt you, you can’t unsee it. You can forgive and even laugh together like nothing happened, but a part of you will always remember how it felt, and that changes everything.

[𝕄𝕒_ℤ𝕠𝕟𝕕𝕠 @Nomagugu_xo]

Y’all don’t realize how deeply you break someone when you push them to the point where they gotta give up on you, especially when they REALLY loved you. Cause for someone like me to walk away, that means you crossed a line so hard it left me sitting with no choice, questioning everything, praying, sitting in silence, losing sleep, losing appetite, losing myself… just to make the decision to cut you off. That kind of hurt is damn near grief you’re still alive, but you gotta be dead to me. And this ain’t just about relationships, this goes for family, friends, anybody. 📌💯

[The woman @Tarmeim]

When you hurt someone and maintain a relationship with that person, they may bring it up again. They may need more clarity. Even if you have apologized, they may bring it up. And when that happens, it is on YOU to be patient and have a discussion about it. If you hurt that person, it's not up to you to tell them when and how to heal. If you are truly sorry and care about them, you gotta deal with those uncomfortable feelings about how they're still hurting over something. These are the consequences of your actions.

[Wolfie 🐺 @TheIgboWolf]

I rarely taste my food while cooking, I cook entirely on confidence and vibes so the finished product is always a surprise to me as much as it is to you.

If you eat my food and something is wrong, please know that I am also a victim and we are in this together.

[Triiad ୭୭ @triiadxx]

My fantasy about marriage is one where love doesn't cost me my freedom. Where I don’t have to shrink myself to fit into someone’s expectations of a wife. It’s a partnership not servitude, not sacrifice as a default. Where I’m not the one bending until I break.

[NomaL @lungeIo]

ende yazi yini into emnandi? you literally don’t have to partner with these men. unlike family esiphiwayo, we get to choose our own partners. if he lacks communication, shiya phansi dade