I don't want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster.
Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder.
And if that means she becomes everything I wasn't... good.
I DONT play the victim. I’ll tell you straight up why I became the villain and why somebody got the reaction they got. I believe in taking accountability for my reactions to people’s actions. And I don’t mind showing someone real quick that they need to find somebody else to play with. I don’t start problems, but I will finish them.
Liars and narcissists love acting like everyone else is the problem while they swear they did nothing wrong. Not me. I’ll tell you exactly what I did, why I did it, and how it happened.
Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
I love to see bitches lose a nigga the same way they got them. Shit be all fun and games wrecking homes and fw someone who is in a relationship. Mfs will laugh at you , laugh at you hurting while they’re in a temporary fantasy till ts dies down and now you going through everything he put the last bitch through PLUS some more. One thing ab it them tables always turn and then yall get on this bitch asking for prayers and sharing sad ass post while he laid up w the next bitch. Like na don’t forget you was laughing at the last bitch hurt , now that it’s you in the position keep that same energy 🤷🏽♀️ ain’t nobody feeling sorry for yo ass but YOU! And all that “ it’s never my loss “ shit , miss me w it cause yes tf it is you thought the grass was greener on the other side till God slapped you on the back of yo neck w his sandle and now you realizing you living in the bed you made.
But no shade. I’m entitled to feel how I feel especially after suffering as long as I did w my child only going on 1yrs old at the time. A little advice though , suck ts up like I had to. Give it to God. Block the negativity. They’ll never change. Not for me. Not for you. Not for the next bitch. Heal and move on so the next person can love you correctly and vise verse. God bless❤️🩹
The problem is a lot of yall niggas did not grow up seeing your moms be pampered.. yall either saw y’all mommas working like dawgs, on drugs, with an abusive ass man or collective government assistance struggling to make ends meet.. a lot of y’all grew up with all half siblings and absent fathers, so you genuinely don’t know what the man’s role is supposed to be and that’s why a lot of yall can’t fathom giving a woman a soft life and being a provider bc you grew up believing women are supposed to be strong and take care of you! A lot of you niggas don’t even know to hold the door or walk on the outside of the sidewalk bc the only protector you ever had was a woman! Lmao