I know this might not be a huge deal to others but I’m officially 22 months sober and I’m feeling really proud of myself. I truly never thought I’d make it this far.
the sexiest thing a woman can do is rewire her brain and create a new belief that she is the princess of the universe and that she is inherently worthy of the highest form of princess treatment
I was at my lowest, and they noticed before I said a word. They showed up quietly, helped gently, and never made me feel like a burden. Some people reveal their character through kindness.
If you don’t know what to do with your life, start by making yourself better. Better at work, better at relationships, better at health, better at life.
I don’t like people who can’t put their pride aside…
can’t apologize, can’t admit they fucked up, can’t say they miss you or want back in your life.
Grow up. Life’s too short to let ego ruin real connections.
In life, and especially with people, anything you try to secure through force becomes fragile. Anything you grip too tightly begins to slip. Anything you fear losing becomes heavier than it truly is. Security is in a sense, like breathing. To hold your breath is to lose it.
I want the kind of money that lets me show up for my people. Even if I can’t fix everything, i want to at least soften the moment. To send food. To send transport fare. To send ice-cream money on a hard day.
I’m tired of only saying “sorry.”