Gaslighting is not when someone doesn't agree with your perspective or doesn't care about hurting you, it's when someone is manipulating you into questioning your sanity and memory, in order to get control over you and a situation. It is abuse.
Once I’ve addressed the situation multiple times & it’s no changed behavior I stop caring. It’s above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. At some point in life you have to know your worth
Take away people’s access to you. The trial is over. Your vibe is a gift and isn’t meant for everybody. Forget how they feel. Remember what you deserve. You matter. Your dreams are valid. Take your passion seriously. Don’t let someone change who you are, to become what they need.
Who is more hurtful?
The person who wronged you, or you, for reliving it over and over in your mind?
Remember this: when you hold on onto a script that doesn’t serve you, you leave no space to write a new one that does. The root of suffering is always attachment.