True personality is always a vocation and puts its trust in it as in God. The original meaning of ‘to have a vocation’ is ‘to be addressed by a voice.’
St Paul in 1 Cor7 says it is better to remain unmarried and focus only on pleasing God & the unmarried shouldn’t seek to be married. If more men & women sought God above all, leaving it to God to provide a spouse if & when He sees fit, there would be less frustration.
“Orthodoxy is not a library that you can study, but an experience that you are called to live. Orthodoxy is first of all a way of life and in fact a Venerable Way of Life, and then a teaching and even a teaching of life, grace, which has nothing from the dead scholasticism and rationalism of Protestantism. Orthodoxy has its own methodology and pedagogy — the Lives of the Saints.”
Saint Justin Popovich