@ginaposts girl please shut up, yall ain’t cute. what are you, the fucking queen of sheeba? these requirements are beyond unreasonable, and men won’t even look your way with this mentality. don’t forget Islam promote making marriage simple reducing the financial burdens and pressure on men
i think women r too casual abt the concept of giving birth like fym “i want 3kids!!!” you want to push 3 separate kids out of your vagina????????????????
5) this also like weirdly specifically exempts men from emotional work within the home which is so stupid. Men want to lead every damn thing but setting the tone for the vibes of the home.
@knafaesque And that's really why they're all upset in my replies, they want (at least) a final sign of distress from from you, one last chance to reject, one final delicacy and a consolation prize. Leave them to their overthinking
@nnnnnnxox Lol i even had friends do crazy things to me and reach out to me "talk" and when i politely declined they were flabbergasted that I wasn't dying for "an explanation"