One of the nicest things you can do for your wife is throw stuff out
I think a lot of people assume it "can't hurt" to keep something, but it can and it does! Too much stuff is actively bad for your wellbeing
My daughter has such undeniable maternal and caretaking instincts, and spends hours caring for her little dolls. Feels so futile to throw in "if you want" when discussing her having kids in the future
I feel like i'm more reasonable, personable, charismatic, and cuter than 99% of cult leaders, and yet I have no cult following. I'm just saying I think I'd make better use of one.
if you’re low on strength, commune with God to restore you. ask for it explicitly. the purer and more direct your appeal, the more vigorous and instant the impact. you have the ultimate trump card at your disposal but you’re too busy believing that you must “only depend on yourself”. this, my brother, is the error of modernity: individualism. the terribly toxic idea that man is his own saviour. I personally stopped depending on myself. my ego is too fragile and emotions too volatile and wisdom too lacking. I depend only on God. and only through His grace do I pass through the bottlenecks and tough times. ask for help. you’ll receive it.