This is my one and only statement about this subject and I’m moving on. Let me make something VERY clear. I don’t care who anyone chooses to date or pursue. That’s their personal life, and they’re entitled to it. But saying you’ve NEVER met anyone that bold? That’s where I have a problem. Because are we seriously going to sit here and rewrite history? There was someone who openly expressed their feelings, made their intentions clear, and repeatedly put their heart on the line in front of the entire world. Someone who endured criticism, harassment, public scrutiny, and an unbelievable amount of hate simply for being honest about how they felt. And through all of that, they never shied away from expressing those feelings.
That wasn’t bold? That wasn’t courage? That wasn’t someone taking an enormous emotional risk? Nobody is obligated to reciprocate someone’s feelings. Nobody owes anyone a relationship. But there’s a difference between moving forward with your life and making statements that seem to erase what someone else went through.
You can appreciate someone’s boldness today without diminishing the courage someone showed yesterday. And what bothers me most is how quickly people are willing to dismiss years of public history just to defend a statement made in the present. I’m not asking anyone to choose anybody. I’m asking people to stop acting like certain things never happened simply because the narrative has changed. You can move forward without rewriting the past. And you can acknowledge something new without erasing what came before it.
Engfa said, “Whoever cannot accept and understand can simply leave. If I can’t keep them, I’ll let them go.”
It feels as though we are expected to quietly accept the consequences of her choices and the reactions that follow, without being allowed to express how deeply those choices have affected us. If we speak up, we are seen as people who cannot understand her. If we cannot bring ourselves to leave, we are expected to keep enduring the hurt. And if we eventually walk away, perhaps she will simply see it as another person she could not keep.
But does she understand what that really means to some of us? Some people, including me, had lost their sense of purpose in life before finding their passion for living again through her. Some found happiness, hope, and something to look forward to because of her. And now, to be told so casually that if we cannot accept the situation, we should simply leave? Does she have any idea how deeply hurtful that feels?
Sometimes, fans are not being stubborn, unreasonable, or unwilling to move on. Sometimes, we are struggling to let go because someone we once looked up to, someone who became a source of inspiration and meaning in our lives, has suddenly shattered the image we held onto. Perhaps we just want to hold on a little longer, trying to convince ourselves that everything we believed in, everything we cherished, and all the meaning we found along the way were not all for nothing.
But perhaps we were foolish to expect anyone to understand.
After all, weren’t these the very things her own boss described as “delusional moments” and “acting”? Something so abstract, so difficult to define, something no one could ever definitively prove to be real or otherwise. We held on to moments, words, and feelings, piecing them together into something that meant the world to us. We believed in something that gave us happiness, hope, and a reason to look forward to tomorrow, even when we could never be certain what it truly meant to the people at the centre of it all.
And perhaps that is where we were always going to lose. How could we ever expect others to understand something that was never clearly defined in the first place? How could we ask someone else to understand a belief that even we could never fully prove, when all we had were the moments we witnessed, the feelings we carried, and the hope we chose to hold on to?
Maybe we don’t need to be understood after all. Maybe we were the ones who gave those moments so much meaning, who built so much happiness around something so intangible, and who allowed ourselves to believe that what we felt was something worth holding on to.
Perhaps this is karma catching up with us. Hahaha.
And maybe that is the most painful part of all: we are not just grieving what happened. We are also struggling to understand what everything we once treasured means to us now. We are trying to reconcile the happiness we genuinely felt with the possibility that the things we believed in may never have meant the same to everyone involved. How do you let go of something that once gave you so much, when you don’t even know which parts of it you are supposed to mourn—the memories themselves, the hopes you built around them, or the meaning you thought they held?
If I had to describe 2025–2026 in one sentence, it would be this: it was like a magnificent firework display that never got the chance to illuminate the night sky with its brightest, most beautiful, and most spectacular colours. Before it could fully bloom, a sudden downpour came, and everything was extinguished before our eyes.
And after everything that has happened, there has been no thoughtful consideration, no dignified handling of the situation, and no apology. After all this time, we are still left carrying the hurt ourselves, wondering whether everything we felt, everything we cherished, and everything we went through ever truly mattered to anyone else. (Cont.)
#englot #อิงล็อต
Now. She has never truly understood why the fans cried at the event on the 12th. Even in the end, she still thinks the fans were trying to forbid her from being with PP. She still blames the fans for not understanding her. #อิงฟ้ามหาชน@EWaraha I have nothing more to say
Week 1: “There’s nothing going on 🤭 Hehe haha. We’re just friends who play sports together.”
Week 2: Crying at a café, referring to XYZ as “that person,” and ending with “I’m 100% single.”
Week 3: “Well, I’m not 100% single. We’re getting to know each other… “and there are multiple people. She has options.
A few minutes ago: “That’s cute.” 🙂
// Sometimes, the less you say, the better. Because at this point, you’re only contradicting yourself and making things worse. I’ve been giving you so much grace, but honestly, that grace is wearing thin. 🤷🏻♀️ It’s genuinely starting to feel like you no longer care about CP work, your partner, or the FC that has continued to support you. And that’s what makes it so disappointing. She can date whoever she wants—that’s not the issue. It’s the lack of manners and the deliberate flirting on CP 4E event day that speaks volumes about that “cute” person’s character. 🤷🏻♀️ And clearly, I’m not the only one who thinks so.
I'm sorry, I just wanted to get a few things off my chest. I'm not trying to blame anyone or point fingers. #Engfa#Charlotte#Englot
It's so hard to say goodbye.
@AndiiTheo I'm not a die-hard LO fan, but I know how hard JKR has worked to bring LO this far. Don't lump everything together and claim that it's all thanks to CH3. That's absolute nonsense.
The artist is always reminding fans to respect everyone. But what about fans like you? You look down on other people with such blatant sarcasm and contempt. It’s absolutely disgusting.
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